The nation singer addressed criticism spearheaded by former Bachelor contestant Ashley Spivey in an Instagram submit Monday, writing that sure quotes from her podcast final week “had been taken severely out of context.”
“Folks suppose I meant the nanny deserved it trigger she is scorching. I did NOT say that NOR would I ever say that or suppose that,” Kramer captioned a photograph of her and husband Mike Caussin holding their 4-month-old son Jace Joseph. “Nobody ever deserves to be sexually assaulted within the office primarily based on what they put on or how they give the impression of being. Interval.”
The feedback the mom of two, 35, was referring to got here final week in an episode of her Whine Down with Jana Kramer podcast.
“Not that I don’t belief my husband, I simply suppose it’s not sensible [to hire an attractive nanny],” Kramer mentioned on the time. “I imply, you have a look at a few of these nannies, and I’m like, ‘Effectively, you kinda requested for it, she’s kinda scorching.’ You already know what I imply? You’re in shut quarters.”
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That quote particularly was blasted by Spivey, who shared a screenshot of it to her Instagram story and wrote, “That is insulting @kramergirl. After an extended day of nannying I can guarantee that the very last thing we need to do is seduce a husband. Additionally, feels like your husband sucks.”
Spivey’s submit appeared to achieve Kramer, who responded in an Instagram direct message that was then shared by the previous actuality star, who works as a nanny.
“It truly was taken out of context however u don’t have to be impolite and say insulting issues again once I wasn’t calling anybody out,” Kramer wrote. “All I mentioned was it’s harmful to rent a playboy kind nanny.”
In response, Spivey doubled down on her claims that Kramer’s feedback had been “insulting.”
“You might be insulting an complete occupation of hardworking ladies which are caring for your youngsters. And it wasn’t taken out of context. You requested for nanny horror tales to again it up. No have to be placing ladies down on this decade for working arduous. It doesn’t matter what we’re carrying,” she wrote to the star.
Spivey continued with a further submit slamming Kramer’s feedback: “Playboy nannies aren’t a factor and truthfully f— Intercourse and the Metropolis for even making this a stereotype that’s nonetheless propagated to at the present time. Nannies have boobs and our bodies and we like intercourse too however we additionally love caring for youngsters and that’s all that needs to be vital.”
She continued, “To see ladies encouraging different ladies to share horror tales about their whorish nannies is DISGUSTING.”
In her prolonged Instagram submit on Monday, Kramer defined that she and her podcast co-hosts had been merely speaking about not “bringing temptation” into their houses, and that whereas they take pleasure in stirring the pot, it was by no means their intention to offend.
“For the nannies I’ve offended I’m sorry,” she wrote. “The humorous factor is all my previous nannies have been lovely and I by no means cared as a result of they LOVED my kids and that’s what it’s about. On the finish of the day folks will cheat it doesn’t matter what and it doesn’t matter what somebody appears like.”
The previous One Tree Hill actress continued by writing that the underside line of her feedback was that hiring a nanny was rooted fully in “boundaries and belief” along with your partner.
“It’s not about how scorching the nanny is, or how huge of boobs ur nanny has or what she is carrying … it’s about BOUNDARIES and TRUST … ” she wrote. “It actually is about having wholesome boundaries along with your partner.”
Her preliminary feedback got here as she mentioned her hiring course of as she seemed for a caregiver for her two kids: Jace and his huge sister Jolie Rae, 3.
“I simply don’t perceive a few of these women that submit photos on Care.com as a result of I’m like, ‘Don’t the feminine is hiring?’ ” she defined. “I’m laughing at a few of these photos!”
“This one photograph was like, ‘Hello, I’m 22 years previous and I’ve perky boobs,’ ” she continued. “Like, don’t submit the perky-boob photograph. You’re not gonna be employed. I’m not hiring you.”
Although Kramer’s husband, 32, was reportedly untrue in 2016 after Jolie’s beginning, the star mentioned Caussin’s conduct was not an affect in her resolution to not rent a gorgeous nanny.
The retired NFL participant finally entered a rehabilitation facility for intercourse dependancy. He just lately celebrated one yr of sobriety, whereas this summer time will mark three years since he first sought therapy.
The couple tied the knot in 2015, and renewed their marriage ceremony vows in December 2017.